I am an activist and advocate for communities seeking access, equality, and equity. Merging my life and love within disability justice and body-neutrality, my commitment to ending gender-based violence, and training in the field of clinical community psychology, I aim to dismantle unjust systems and institute social change. I’ve spent my 36 years on this earth in and around Los Angeles, California and have recently begun the next chapter of my story in New Haven, Connecticut. You may find me practicing, researching, or smashing the patriarchy…but one thing is true: I’m still writing my story and am honored to listen to yours (which I guess are two things, but you get it).

On a personal note

I’m an introvert who is pretty good at putting on an extrovert coat when I need it. What recharges me is the smell of a good book, on a cold night, with a blanket wrapped around me. Sometimes it’s a walk outside, taking photos of the trees (that I swear are welcoming me home). I’m a self-proclaimed sensationalist who will inevitably get lost in fiction until someone I trust can bring me back. Most of my past lives are across the pond and I love putting pen to paper. I was born to disrupt the status quo and will spend the rest of this life shaking things up.

Nothing I accept about myself can be used against me to diminish me

– Audre Lorde

I wish I could show you, when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishming light of your own being

– Hafiz

Artwork Citations

Thank you to the artists and community members for your intersectional and inclusive creations. Below you will find artist info for various images on this site

Farah Jeune

@studiojeuneart on Instagram

Eddie Swayze

@aslisanartform.tumblr.com

Kah Yangni (they/them)

@kahyangni on Instagram. This specific artwork was created for the book, Crip Kindship by Dr. Shayda Kafai

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Accessed via: Google images, Pinterest, and Twitter

Thoughts & Stories

Personal, political, & vulnerable. I'll be using this platform like others use twitter and like Bridget Jones used her diary. If I'm feeling a way and want to share it...it'll be here. Some days it might be light, other days it could be dark, but a lot of the time it will be fired up over injustices and advocating for empowerment and change. For thoughts from others, thoughts of my own, and shared resources...this is where you should hang.

I Don’t Ask Anymore

A poem by Maya Abu Al-Hayyat @mayaabualhayy a Beirut-born, Palestinian novelist and poet living in Jerusalem. She has a book of poems (that I just ordered from a local bookstore and cannot wait to spend Read more…

Sentimental Teardrops

This is how I’m feeling today. It’s how I’ve been feeling lately…and I don’t know what it is. It’s academia. It’s depression. It’s the unexpected and out of my control. It’s fibromyalgia and PCOS. It’s Read more…

Rising out of Stagnation

As a global society, we are no longer in unprecedented times. That phrase lost its power some years back when health crises, human rights issues, and racial injustice became our norm. Collectively, we are having Read more…

The Other Side of Adventure

If you’re reading this, it’s probably because you know me personally or like my writing enough to follow. It also means that you know I’m about to make some big ‘ol life changes. Just in Read more…

Navajo Nation

I read today that not only has the Navajo Nation kicked coronavirus’s ass within their own communities, they are now donating extra PPE to India. The difference in cultural practices and collectivist values is astounding. Read more…

Boundaries

Saw a post on Instagram today that I connected with: My boundaries started to strengthen when: I got comfortable with sitting in discomfort I understood that recognizing my limits was essential for my wellbeing I Read more…

The Fire This Time

Verdict: Guilty. Some folks celebrate, some dig their heels into the racist constructs of their minds. Others are having a much more complicated response. Derek Chauvin was guilty the moment the world saw him murder Read more…

Note to Self

More than anything, I wish I could tell my younger self, "You are not a thing that someone else can ruin forever. Your body is not made of shame, it is made of light. You Read more…